This, above, is the blog of Dr. Elaine Chaika. Check it out!
Elaine was my professor of linguistics tens of years ago when I was a freshman at Providence College in Rhode Island. An elective, at the time, Linguistics, soon became a weekly fascinating class for me. This was a unique time to attend Providence College. I was in the first full class of women. Elaine was also a rarity in that year – one of the first female lay professors – much less a person of Jewish faith in a campus of Catholic priests and nuns. PC was stretching and straining at the time – and all these years later it has done well for it and by it. A few incredible glitches recently, but that is a story for another day.
I lived on campus and had two roommates who were both from New Haven, CT. We had friends on either side of us also from Connecticut. PC drew quite a few Connecticut girls in that first year. Sometime in January, sitting in our rooms getting ready to go out and having a few cocktails ahead of time, we all seemed to have gotten quite sick of each other, or at least noodgey with each other.
That very well may have come from living in such tight quarters. In addition to our space issues we also had issues that came from the educating of the Dominicans on campus. Such as, no, padres, women do not shower in one big shower room (they having just moved us into what before were male dorms). And, no, it is unsafe to put metal bars on our picture windows on the 1st floor to protect us from boys who may have thrown caution out the window in favor of raging hormones and decided to leap in and fetch us) – because, well, dear Fathers, suppose there was a fire. How would we get out in an emergency?
I digress. After having a few drinks, we were picking on each other, and I was trying to play peace keeper. Then someone said – “you know, none of us can understand anything you say – we never have”. You blab on and on and we laugh at you because you speak so “funny”. I couldn’t wait to bring this up in class – with Dr. Chaika. And I did.
We talked about dialects and there being no “right and wrong” about speech. I felt better. But yet, I found I became acutely aware and self-conscious, as I equated sounding “funny” with sounding “dumb”. Soon, meticulously articulated “r’s” came into my vocabulary. And enunciation of familiar RI words became rote.
I went home in the spring and had dinner with my extended family – 6/7ths of them Portuguese. My mother said – “I don’t understand anything you are saying. You are talking ‘funny'”. And so it went. I now sounded “funny” wherever I was. I’d only hoped I didn’t also sound “dumb”!
I remembered Dr. Chaika’s easy ways, common sense approach, and I recall thinking she was truly one of the most intellectual professors I had ever had. Not merely teaching out of textbooks, but philosophizing about life; putting lessons into context of society and history. She was a favorite memory of a strained and odd time at this college.
Tens of years later, Dr. Chaika is my client! We re-met on Facebook. She is a woman of high technology, and at our first meeting she taught me things about computers and the technology of writing using resources that are “right there, dear!” that I didn’t know. She is an author, reviewer, collector, but mostly a scholar. 79 years old wearing tight corduroys and 3 inch mules, running up and down the stairs to share things with me, with her two Maltese dogs scurrying around to catch up with her. With Nooks and iPads and laptops scattered in every room – and her office with a four foot graphic designer-type computer screen – what a treat.
Today I am happy to share her blog. That is the link you see, above, Dogs and Wolves. Elaine is writing a new book about dogs and communication, perhaps to be titled, “How Dogs Civilized Humans”. She will talk about the interconnection of dog and wolf. And so much more. It is my pleasure to support her in growing her social media strategy and her brand as her book grows and develops. The little ones you see, below, are Skeezix and Scamp – one hesitant and a little worrisome – the other – ok, let’s do it! They say we all have our yin and yang inside of us…
If you would like to follow Elaine, she has a plethora of ways to do that:
Her other blog: http://smarthotoldlady.blogspot.com/
Her website: http://elainechaika.com/
Her FB page: https://www.facebook.com/AmazingDogsYoursAndMine
Her Twitter: @OurAmazingDogs – https://twitter.com/OurAmazingDogs